My Second Missed Miscarriage

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  1. Mindy says:

    You are so strong to share this with us. I am praying for you guys. I can’t even imagine the pain you are feeling. Sending you lots of love!!

  2. Carolynne says:

    I am so sorry you have had to go through this. It is the hardest thing I can think of. I am so glad you have such a great support system around you. I am so saddened for the loss of your son or daughter. He/she was so loved and will always be remembered. I hope they can figure out the cause for some peace of mind. Lots of love.

  3. Amber says:

    I am so sorry for your loss. I remember when I had my first miscarriage. It wasn’t as devastating as yours, but it still hurt just as much. My prayers are with you, and I hope in time, God’s words will help you heal.

  4. Melissa says:

    My heart breaks so hard for you guys. <3 It's also amazing that you had the strength to write about this experience, it is much more than I could have done in my own past moments of grief. I've been thinking of you lots and lots this past week and will continue to keep you and Joshua on my mind and heart. I hope the physical healing goes quickly and smoothly and the emotional healing makes progress as well. All the love and hugs <3

  5. Angie says:

    I am so, so sorry. Praying for strength for you and your husband, and your circle. Please know that you aren’t alone in your grief and that you have support from us out here any time you need it. Thank you for sharing your story.

  6. Georgie says:

    Oh…Cristina 😞 I’m so sorry to hear about your loss. And Josh’s loss, and you families’ loss too. My heart is breaking for you, I can’t imagine how hard this must have been for the second time. I can understand anything would be triggering for you right now considering your journey so far, especially with this little one.

  7. Joy says:

    Reading your post, all I can do is cry because our situations are near identical. We lost a little one at around 10 weeks and it was so hard to take because we had tried for so long due to my PCOS. The second time around, everything seemed to go so smoothly until my membranes ruptured at 17 weeks. I still can’t understand it. We named our little boy Matthias Asher and the little one before him, simply, Angel.

    I know the emptiness all too well and I am so sorry you have to go through this. I recently started following your tweets and it’s so inspiring to see that you are taking the steps toward healing. It’s something I’m struggling very hard with but when I see other strong women strive after something so heartbreaking, it gives me just a little more strength.

    • Cristina says:

      Joy, thank you so much for your comment. I am so sorry you’re having to go through this. I admire you for being able to name your babies – I haven’t been able to bring myself to do that, the pain is just too raw still. I read your post and I can relate to how you’re grieving – I had a total breakdown in the middle of the floor the other day where I cried and cried. It’s a daily struggle for sure. It’s good to know we are not alone in our grief though, right? <3

  8. Kelly Mahan says:

    I am so sorry for your loss. You are very brave for sharing this with us. I’m sending you lots of prayers. All the love! <3